Let’s admit that
certain aspects of family history can be confusing or even—dare we say it?—boring
to children and youth. Scouring 17th-century
British tax records for a seventh great-uncle’s middle name might not hold
their attention for very long, right?
especially need an approach that introduces people of all ages to the joys and
even fun of temple and family history work—but in the simplest way possible.
Say good-bye to
family history that puts your kid to sleep. Instead, say hello to family
history that inspires, motivates, comforts, thrills, captivates, amuses,
cheers, consoles . . . the list goes on.
Principles for Involving the Whole Family
So how exactly does
one go about making temple and family history both accessible and interesting
to youth and children? The class offered six principles to follow:
1. Seek inspiration.
knows the stories or details that will interest your children. Study the
available tools, then ask Him to guide you.
2. Be real.
Life rarely goes
as planned. We can learn from our ancestors’ challenges and feel inspired by
the difficulties they faced—especially when their struggles mirror our own.
3. Stick together.
Family history is
a family pursuit. Work together and share your discoveries. You will enjoy a
richer, fuller experience if you do.
4. Keep the experience short.
A series of
brief, easy encounters with family history is usually more effective than a
5. Be spontaneous.
opportunities to share and talk about your family’s history with your children
throughout the day. Breakfast, walks, playtime, grocery shopping—these
opportunities are everywhere, if you’re looking.
6. Talk—then tech.
Make sure your family history activities include ample
amounts of short conversation. This is what kids want. It’s what holds their
Read more about
these principles at “Discover, Gather, and Connect Your Family
Don’t Forget to Have Fun
Temple and family
history work for the family should be activity-based—people doing, talking, and
interacting with one another. To that end, FamilySearch has created a robust
catalog of activities specifically designed for
families to try out
together. Check them out:
My Family—activities that help a person learn about
his or her family, both the living and those who have passed on. One
possibility is to cook your family’s favorite meal and then share stories associated with
that prepare children, youth, and even adults for the temple. Small children
may not be able to serve inside the temple, but they can still enjoy the beautiful grounds outside of one or they can view pictures
of the outside and inside of temples throughout the world. Children can also plan for their temple trip someday!
Sister Joy D. Jones, Primary General President, commented on the importance of an activity-based approach to family history: “These [activities] are easy and natural opportunities for children to have their first experience with family history in a fun and interactive way,” she said.
“What a wonderful
opportunity to draw families together, to get to know each other better, and to
cherish family ties on both sides of the veil.”
A Time and Place for Everything
As you can see,
the activities on FamilySearch.org show that temple and family history service is
a flexible endeavor—adaptable to the needs, interests, abilities, and ages of
those involved. As President Dallin H. Oaks has said, “Members should participate by prayerfully selecting those
ways that fit their personal circumstances at a particular time.”
Even the smallest
efforts to learn more about your family history can bless and strengthen your
family. President Oaks continued: “Our effort is not to compel everyone to do
everything, but to encourage everyone to do something.”
Source: New on FamilySearch